Why do I empathise? i often ask myself this? i have this habit of thinking from everybody else's viewpoint which makes life tuff for me! i have made so many compromises in life thinking how my decision would affect others. so many adjustments that truly it doesn't feel that its my life! i just act according to the reactions that i feel my actions will have on others! Even after trying hard to change this habit i have not succeded. its making life difficlut for me. i empathise with those with whom i shouldnt. empathising with them means trouble for me! but what do i do? i dont want anybody to be in trouble, to be sad because of me!

But do others too think of me? i dont really think so... well, but then i can only be responsible for my actions!

God, please help me do what i want to do, else please help me get rid of this habit of empathising!